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My name is Sonja, I am 23 years old, and happily married to my best friend, Chris (a.k.a Hubby Man). I love being with my family and friends, watching movies with the hubby(we are HUGE movie buffs), or curled up on the couch with a nice cup of coffee and my two babies. (pepper ann our rescue mutt, and Witten our pug). Life is an adventure to me, and every day I look forward for what is to come. Hopefully sooner than later our happy little family will be expanding, and I couldn't be happier!

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Happy Halloween! 22 weeks



How far along? 20 weeksTotal weight gain: 9 pounds
Maternity clothes? yep!
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: ok
Best moment this week: Halloween!

Miss Anything? hummmmm. sleeping a full night
Movement: every day
Food cravings: sweet tea :)
Anything making you queasy or sick: getting too hungry
Gender: Boy! <3

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: Acne, NO energy, and always hungry
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on (getting snug)

Happy or Moody most of the time: both
Looking forward to: Trick-or-Treating tomorrow


LOVE this time of year! cannot wait until Thanksgiving!
:)

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Halfway There!


 
 

How far along? 20 weeks
Total weight gain: 6 pounds
Maternity clothes? yep!
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: ok
Best moment this week: anatomy scan

Miss Anything? I think I have adjusted to the preggo lifestyle
Movement: every day
Food cravings: sweet tea :)
Anything making you queasy or sick: getting too hungry
Gender: Boy! <3

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: still some acne, and bloating... and occasional fatigue oh and hot flashes....
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: both
Looking forward to: Doctor's appointment on Tuesday


So at my ultrasound, my due date was officially changed. I am now due on 3/2 and very excited :) I love my sweet little baby. That just means, my week change in now on saturdays and....


How far along? 21 weeks
Total weight gain: 6 pounds
Maternity clothes? yep
Stretch marks? none
Sleep: better
Best moment this week: anatomy scan

Miss Anything? adapted
Movement: for sure, kicks... he is starting to target my bladder :(
Food cravings: sweet tea!
Anything making you queasy or sick: getting too hungry
Gender: Boy! <3

Labor Signs: had my first braxton hicks contraction. very weird...
Symptoms: acne and a very active baby
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: both
Looking forward to: Doctor on Tuesday! :)










his sweet Little face <3

Smile

Friday, October 12, 2012

18,19 Weeks


 
How far along? 18 weeks
Total weight gain: 4 pounds
Maternity clothes? on the weekends with a shirt and scrub pants at work
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: ok
Best moment this week: The Ultrasound! :)

Miss Anything? not being so limited
Movement: kicks
Food cravings: Sweet Tea!
Anything making you queasy or sick: getting too hungry
Gender: just a few short days!

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: still some acne, and bloating... and occasional fatigue oh and hot flashes....
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: both
Looking forward to: Gender reveal, I have driven poor lisa crazy this week!

 
 
 
The Reveal <3
 




 
Noah Neal Behnken is on his way! :)
 
I was VERY shocked to see blue and not pink! but SO happy with my baby boy! :)
 
some other happy moments. My grandparents drove all the way from dfw to come surprise me. I was SO excited they came all this way. I don't get to see them more than three or four times a year. these little surprises mean the world.
 
 


How far along? 19 weeks
Total weight gain: 5 pounds
Maternity clothes? yep! I did try my pants on... they still fit and button but I look like a cow in them! lol
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: ok
Best moment this week: The Reveal party

Miss Anything? not being so limited
Movement: for sure, kicks
Food cravings: sweet tea! looooove it!
Anything making you queasy or sick: getting too hungry
Gender: Boy! <3

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: still some acne, and bloating... and occasional fatigue oh and hot flashes....
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: both
Looking forward to: the anatomy scan next week :)

Sunday, September 30, 2012

17 Week Ultrasound

My sweet baby! :)
weighs about 8oz and HR was 151
I'm still thinking girl. 6 more days until I know for sure! :)
I just wanted to share <3
I love this little bink so much!
the picture is of the face, left elbow, and belly :)

Thursday, September 27, 2012

17 weeks (Happy Anniversary)




How far along? 17 weeks
Total weight gain: 4 pounds
Maternity clothes? on the weekends with a shirt and scrub pants at work
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: ok
Best moment this week: Happy four year anniversary <3 yesterday :)

Miss Anything? not being so limited
Movement: flutters definite flutters
Food cravings: citrus fruits all together
Anything making you queasy or sick: getting too hungry
Gender: unknown, almost here!

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: still some acne, and bloating... and occasional fatigue oh and hot flashes....
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: both
Looking forward to: Ultrasound! Tomorrow! :) the 8 days between tomorrow and the 6th will be killer :/

Saturday, September 22, 2012

16 Weeks



How far along? 16 weeks
Total weight gain: 4 pounds
Maternity clothes? on the weekends
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: pretty good
Best moment this week: date night with the hubby

Miss Anything? not being so limited
Movement: flutters definite flutters
Food cravings: still oranges
Anything making you queasy or sick: getting too hungry
Gender: unknown (2 more weeks!)

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: still some acne, and bloating... and occasional fatigue oh and hot flashes....
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: still moody :/
Looking forward to: Ultrasound! :)


Friday, September 14, 2012

15 Weeks


 

How far along? 15 weeks
Total weight gain: 3 pounds
Maternity clothes? on the weekends
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: :( no. can no longer sleep on my tummy or back... only two options suck....
Best moment this week: Birth of baby Harper! <3

Miss Anything? sleeping on my belly
Movement: flutters :)
Food cravings: I love me some oranges! :)
Anything making you queasy or sick: getting too hungry
Gender: unknown

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: still some acne
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: I've been moody :/
Looking forward to: my next ultrasound! :) 9/28 :D



My beautiful friend, and hubby's cousin gave birth last Friday to the most adorable little girl! Harper Josephine <3


Jaynen & Harper
baby bink's two very best friends! :)
 

Thursday, September 6, 2012

14 weeks



How far along? 14 weeks
Total weight gain: 2 pounds
Maternity clothes? broke down and got some...
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: good :)
Best moment this week: no morning sickness, and more energy

Miss Anything? sleeping on my belly
Movement: flutters :)
Food cravings: I love me some oranges! :)
Anything making you queasy or sick: bleh mexican food still...
Gender: unknown

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: still some acne
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy
Looking forward to: my next ultrasound! :) 9/28 :D

 

Thursday, August 30, 2012

13 weeks



So In Love!

How far along? 13 weeks
Total weight gain: 2 pounds
Maternity clothes? nope... thinking about it though.....
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: good :)
Best moment this week: Hearing my beans hear rate at the doctor <3 160-170

Miss Anything? trampolines....
Movement: flutters :)
Food cravings: I love me some oranges! :)
Anything making you queasy or sick: bleh mexican food still...
Gender: unknown

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: Morning sickness.... still... acne :(
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy
Looking forward to: my next ultrasound! :) 9/28 :D


Thursday, August 23, 2012

Just Peachy (12 Weeks)



Lost of mixed reviews on this, but tomorrow I start my 13th week of pregnancy... if you ask me... I belive that means I am hitting that second trimester! I'm very excited about this! woke up feeling great this morning! I'm actually about to give my house a well needed scrub down because the last seven weeks I have basically lived on the couch!

Two very beautiful little gilrs were born this past week. Hubby's cousin had a 10lbs girl (Scarlett) on monday, and my cousin had the beautiful Emma Rose yesterday (8lbs 1oz). I am praying baby bink is no more than 7lbs5oz....  I actually have a lot of predictions on bink....

Girl!!
size:6lbs 14oz 18" long
Eyes: blue/green (daddy's)
hair: curly with a red/brown color
nose: mine :)
dimples!
and the signature Behnken ears! hehe!

lets see how right I am!


as far as this week goes.....

How far along? 12 weeks
Total weight gain: 1 pound
Maternity clothes? nope
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: doing great this week :) 
Best moment this week: hearing my sweet baby's heart beat! :)

Miss Anything? not having to live my life under so many restrictions!--this is the same
Movement: very light flutters
Food cravings: not really....
Anything making you queasy or sick: still mexican food... bleh!
Gender: unknown

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: still bloating on and off...
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy
Looking forward to: second Doctor's appt. on tuesday! :)


Friday, August 17, 2012

11 weeks (It's Plum CRAZY!)

Oh My! growing so fast now! I practically live my life week by week just for the pictures. I am sure that when I really start showing, and my belly isn't changing size throughout the day, I will actually start to take pictures with my whole face! in all of these, you honestly don't want to see what I look like from the waist up! talk about bed head! hehe. I have been taking every picture at the same time every Thursday morning. trying to keep everything accurate. as of right now I have put on 1 whole pound, my Morning sickness is starting to subside, and my pants feel snug around the abdomen (mostly when I am sitting)

Hubby man says he can tell I am starting to show (just a little) I don't really see it yet... I can't wait for that day though! :)

I have been getting things ready for my gender reveal party. I really can't wait! in just 5-6 weeks I will know what my sweet baby is going to be! :)

How far along? 11 weeks
Total weight gain: 1 pound
Maternity clothes? nope
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: pretty good... except for on Monday nights!  night I wake up at three on the dot and CANNOT go back to sleep!
Best moment this week: no more morning sickness!!!! (or much less than the last six weeks)

Miss Anything? not having to live my life under so many restrictions!
Movement: they say it is too early..... but I swear I have been feeling very small flutters
Food cravings: hummm...not really craving this week, but I have really been NOT wanting, taco bell, mexican food, or ANY form of fried food! bleh!
Anything making you queasy or sick: read above....
Gender: unknown

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: not really much hear lately.... growing belly I guess :)
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: pretty Happy
Looking forward to: planning my gender reveal party! and that glorious second trimester!

Sunday, August 12, 2012

8,9,10 weeks

I was 8 weeks, sill sick and still 0 pounds gained. dr. appt. went great. I had a pelvic exam and urine pregnancy test. he answered all my questions

Still no weight gain, still fighting morning sickness. I was still dying to know if it was twins or not. I have still been fighting morning sickness and fatigue. :( not my favorite. counting down the days to that second trimester!

this Saturday or town had a baby expo. all the baby related organizations and such got together and handed out information and tons of free stuff! I went with my mom and had such an amazing time!

one of the last booths we came to happened to be an ultra sound clinic. my mom just happened to notice, they were giving ultrasounds for only ten dollars! such an amazing deal! I downed a bottle of water and got in line.  was sad y sweet husband wasn't there, but I just couldn't wait any longer! :)

my baby's first picture! They couldn't hear a heart beat yet, but you could see it beating away. I was so happy, I cried. that was the single most amazing moment of my life. :)

Wednesday I had another ultrasound scheduled at another local clinic. this one hubby man was actually going to see :)


Heart Rate was 171! very strong and very healthy! hubby was amazed, and I was so happy! my next ultrasound isn't until 20 weeks! that will be forever! I miss seeing my little baby already. the tech said I was measuring nearly a week ahead, but she didn't recommend changing my due date. and I am starting t plan my gender reveal party :) I really feel like we have a baby girl, but would not be sad if there was a sweet little boy in there. all I ask is for a healthy baby.


How far along? 10 Weeks
Total weight gain: 1 lbs
Maternity clothes? nope
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: some nights are perfect, others, not so much :(
Best moment this week: seeing my baby

Miss Anything? eating without being sick
Movement: none
Food cravings: a s'more! so yummy. :)
Anything making you queasy or sick: being hungry.
Gender: unknown(I think girl)

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: Morning sickness, fatigue, acne
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: happy but getting more mood swings on and off
Looking forward to: second trimester! it's so close!

Thursday, July 19, 2012

7 Weeks



Wow, can you say bloat!? so six weeks on the dot, I developed morning sickness... I have gotten back to my starting weight (according to my scale this morning) 'm keeping a food journal this week so I can really focus on what I am eating and how much nutrients my baby is really getting, I'm very happy to be back to where I started, I was worried with the morning sickness being so bad I would loose more weight, but the pregnancy is still young. I also picked up a composition book, hubby and I are going to start writing to baby for him or her to have when they grow up. :)
I don't have any motivation to do anything other than sleep or sit... and if I sit too long then try to get up I get sick. bleh. it's been a rough week, I'm hoping this passes very soon.

How far along? 7 Weeks
Total weight gain: 0
Maternity clothes? nope
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: sleep through the whole night two times this week! :)
Best moment this week: sleeping a full night with no potty breaks

Miss Anything? Caffeine... and sushi
Movement: none
Food cravings: cheese enchilada's! I haven't had one yet, so I'm going crazy for it!
Anything making you queasy or sick: here lately I'm ALWAYS sick!! I have all day sickness. really hoping it doesn't last long....
Gender: unknown

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: Morning sickness :( and major bloat
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: pretty happy this week
Looking forward to: still my Doctor visit. my question list keeps getting longer

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Blueberry Behnken (6 Weeks)



How far along? 6 Weeks
Total weight gain: -3
Maternity clothes? nope
Stretch marks? none yet
Sleep: I have discovered that walking makes sleep a lot easier
Best moment this week: When Hubby read to baby <3

Miss Anything? Caffeine!
Movement: none
Food cravings: Meat, chicken wings burgers... oh and I LOVE cheese sticks!
Anything making you queasy or sick: nothing in particular... just occasional nausea
Gender: unknown

Labor Signs: No
Symptoms: Fatigue, Bloated, nausea, fatigue!
Belly Button in or out? in
Wedding rings on or off? on

Happy or Moody most of the time: so emotional!
Looking forward to: My doctor's appointment! :) getting closer!

Monday, July 9, 2012

Week 5 (Happy Fourth!)

So this weekend got a little crazy. It was nice to be over that stupid virus though! :) fourth of July was seriously amazing! The fireworks were beautiful, an the company was even better. We spent the fourth at my mom's for some yummy brisket! then came home for our community fireworks show!






On Friday after work, hubby man, and I drove up to the DFW area to spend time with my amazing cousins. We all went to six flags. It was very hot! I couldn't ride any rides (except the river rapids!) but I enjoyed all the company. :) I wish I could see all of my cousins more than once or twice a year, but now with Facebook and text Messaging. Keeping in touch is a lot easier.

Mom's Side

All My cousin's and their spouses/children...minus one... she was out of town

Chris and I at Six Flags! :)


I got my doctor appointment scheduled for July 30th. I will be 8 1/2 weeks so I am hoping for at least being able to hear the heart beat! :)

Baby Bink::
5 weeks (really 5 1/2 I take too long to post a blog)
Size: a sweet pea <3
Symptoms: fatigue, bloating, and acne :(
Weight gain: (-1)lbs


My first fruit picture! :)

I will try to start updating on Thursday's now, since that is my official 'week change.' :)

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Week 4

So, this weekend I have spent the entire two and a half days sitting on my couch. This was not because I am lazy and have no life... Thursday night about ten p.m. I started to get very sick to my stomach. I put it off as morning sickness but since I was only 4 weeks I thought that was just a tad bit early. As the night went on I got zero sleep. It was miserable! Friday morning I took my temp. It was 100.0! This really freaked me out. I had heard when you are pregnant, you shouldn't let your temp get above 101.1... Needless to say, I was starting to worry it was more than a common case of morning sickness. I decided to go to work, (maybe it wasn't in my head)Fridays are normally our busiest day. This day however, we were so slow! It's a very good thing. My lower back started to hurt so bad. I was afraid it was my kidneys from being dehydrated. I had lost 4 whole pounds over night. I called my doctor and made an apt. They confirmed my suspision. I had a stomach virus. Gave me some zofran, and started me on tylonoel to get my fever down. I am feeling much better now, but after three long days of camping in my couch, I am ready for work tomorrow! I need interaction with people. It has been a very eventful weekend so far, I look forward to making my first doctors apt tomorrow! :) I'm so ready to hear my little bean's heart beat!

Sunday, June 24, 2012

First Came Love...








We're Pregnant!!

After one month of trying, we are beyond excited!
I found out Friday, I am only 3weeks and 3 days. I can't wait to go on this amazing jorney with the love of my life! since I found out on a Friday, my OB was closed. I will be calling first thing tomorrow to make myself an appt. and I will keep everyone posted on this amazing journey in my life!


Sunday, June 17, 2012

I'm Back!

Sorry I have been gone so long! I truly missed writing! I have been very busy trying to get my home fully ready. We painted out master bedroom, and put in a new fan. Lots of birthdays for nieces, travel for family.... Summer is so busy!

Just a few things I have stumbled across since I have been gone....

What to expect when your expecting-movie
SO funny, I have seen it twice now, and love it every time!

The book, I enjoy it... I have read up to the '1 month' and it gives you plenty of pre-conception tips and advice. I plan on reading ahead in that book month by month.

Your Pregnancy Week by Week-book
I enjoy tips book more... it breaks it down by week and has a few more tips. this one I have read up to 'week 4' just cause, you really don't find out you are pregnant until nearly week 5 any way....

For smart Phone users....

What to expect fertility-this app is so good! it helps you track all your cycles and there is a forum full of ladies going through the same thing you are. I use this as an escape when I can tell everyone is tired of my baby talk....


I am so glad to be back! I hope everyone enjoys their summer! I hope to have good news for you all some time in the future!

last but not least.... Happy Fathers DAY!!!!

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Anti Social

Sorry I have been so anti-social here lately. My inspiration and motivation to do nearly anything has been so low. I'm always tried and busy, just sort of 'blah'

Mothers day was so great! I had an amazing time with my mom. She truly is my world and I couldn't picture my life without her <3
My arm finally healed! Yay! it took it long enough. Life has been good overall. Father-in-law got moved in, we put in a basket ball goal.... so many changes! one night we stayed up and played with a light up Frisbee well after dark.

I hope to update everyone more soon. I'm sure I will find the inspiration to write again! :)

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Can You Say Ouch?!

So like I said before, Friday at work I stepped on a nail, it went through my shoe and poked my foot, barely enough to break the skin, but enough to make me get a tetanus shot....

Monday: for lunch I left work and got myself a shot. (boo!) No big deal, other than my normal 'dont let Sonja pass out' precautions, I left and went about my day with a slightly sore arm. (normal so far, right?) Wrong!
Tuesday: I wake up with a dime size red spot on my arm. I didn't freak out yet because I was still assuming this was normal for this type of shot. By lunch it was so sore I could hardly move my right arm, and the entire thing had swollen to the size of a half dollar. my right arm was forming hives and it had a huge not right in the middle! I called my Dr. and took a lot of benadryl. By the time I went to sleep Tuesday night, it had grown to silver dollar size.
Wednesday: You know that saying, 'It doesn't hurt until you look at it.'? well I woke up with a still slightly sore arm but assumed it was better... the benadryl had to of helped some.... Or so I though. I look in the mirror while I was getting ready and the think was full of golf ball size! with a knot the size of a quarter and the heat of a sever sun burn! oh, brother! the nail in the foot hurt for a total of thirty minutes.... Three days, two doctors visits, two shots (one to help with the swelling and other strange reaction this tetanus shot gave me), and a strong antibiotic later. I am sitting here with a red dot on my arm the size of a tennis ball.

Note to self....
Look before you step!


Yesterday at lunch

last night
 today at lunch
 just now :(

Sunday, April 29, 2012

That Crazy Kind of Weekend....

First I'd like to say to all my followers, friends, co-workers, family and so on. Sorry I only update once a week... I feel like my week days are too 'going through the motions' and then everything happens at once on the weekends.

All this week my poor babies had been acting sick. They would go back and forth so Friday I got them both a vet apt. I got to drive them to work with me for an hour and show them off before leaving to the vet. Turns out everything is OK and they just need to finish a round on some meds and get a little better.

After a long week of trying to fight it, I finally had to give my car of nearly seven years up :(. I have had 'trooper' since I was 16 and I was determined to drive him until he just couldn't go anymore.... That day came.... but I am now a very proud owner of a brand new 2012 Chevy Cruz! I spent the entire afternoon in my car driving it around town! I love it!

After getting settled in with my new ride, I headed off to a baby shower. It was so much fun! and did not help my baby fever at all... (it's almost here though!!) such cute decorations done by my very creative sister-in-law and Haley got some great gifts!

Today was the amazing trip to the Zoo! I am beyond wore out, but we had such an amazing time with the family. Watching my niece's face when she saw all the animals was priceless! I can't wait to take her back very soon!

Some of My Favorites...






In other news, Friday after work, I was walking back to my can and landed on a rusty nail! it's went straight through my shoe! (can you say ouch?!) luckily it just poked my foot and the shoe caught most of the stick. Regardless, my happy butt will be going to the Dr. on Monday for a tetanus shot! (boo!)